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Get Interactive With Fleshlight

Humans are an inquisitive and curious bunch. Our thirst for learning is insatiable. We spend many years of our lives in school, first to learn the basic of reading and writing and arithmetic and then many years after learning more specialized collections of information and trades. And then, as we grow older, folks are still trying to grow and learn with hobbies, travel and physical activities.

Throughout all of these stages of development, there is one common theme that ties our journey together: development. As we make grades, learn languages, master a new recipe, we are often trying to develop both ourselves and others around us. We are contributing to the collective betterment of humans by becoming well-rounded individuals and by offering something back.

Providing for others is part of our nature. There is a cycle that has been repeated through time as humans. Discover or identify a need, invent, master, distribute. You can look back at the basics of life including fire, bread, electricity and see how this cycle has greatly helped us as a whole. Sure, this cycle is frequently used for financial benefit and gain, but even when that is the case, we are often still better off.

Better sex helps us all

Of course, this cycle also applies to sex—both in education and sex products. After a long period where sex was demonized, we’re starting to crawl away from that trauma and move toward a better understanding and acceptance of sex, individually and societally. This progression is allowing us to expand our understanding of what people want out of sex, how they find pleasure and what sex toys they want to play with.

This has lead to the development of truly revolutionary products. Really, it seems like a new device comes out every couple months that blows our socks off (amongst other things!). This boom in sex tech is a direct result of loosening our restrictions, both mentally and societally, around sex, thus letting our imaginations run wild. Here is where we see the cycle of development fully in effect—and the results have been stellar.

From materials to motors and more, sex tech has improved by leaps and bounds. But there has long been, for one specific demographic, one sex toy that has never been mastered.

The Holy Grail of sex toys?

There are many devices out there that can move a dildo or vibrator in and out of a vagina to simulate intercourse. They’ve even been enshrined in mainstream media, as in the film Burn After Reading. More often than not, fucking machines are associated with porn and the male gaze of women’s sexuality, but there might be some women who do like them.

Unfortunately, there has never been a widely-marketed device that simulates intercourse on a penis, with no effort required by the user other than hold tight and enjoy.

Until now.

The release of the Fleshlight Launch has been heralded as one of the most significant sex product advances in years. A joint effort between Fleshlight and Kiiroo, the Launch offers so many features and additional benefits that it sets itself apart from any other device on the market today—and possibly for years to come.

The Launch is actually two components: a Fleshlight and the Launch module. You can use any Fleshlight sleeve you want, as long it fits in a regular case. So, you can simulate a vagina, an anus, a mouth, a pornstar or even a zombie, whatever gets you excited. The Launch module is a sleek and stylized, circular device that you secure your Fleshlight into. Once it is clicked into place, the true magic of the toy can begin.

Get ready for blast-off!

The Launch two main functionalities: interactive and manual. Let’s start with the later to outline the basics of what this two offer.

Unlike many other penis pleasure machines, the Launch offers two main actions. Many other pumping devices just offer one: changing the speed at which it strokes the penis. Indeed, this is a key feature, but the Launch takes things one amazing step forward. While also offering user control of the device speed, the Launch also enables the player to change the depth at which the Fleshlight strokes. Do you like short, quick strokes concentrating on the head of the penis? Or are you more into slow, deep strokes taking your whole cock in?

This innovation is enough to set the Launch far and above all other mechanized strokers on the market—but these aren’t even its best features.

Shoot with the stars

Porn has become entwined with our masturbatory lives. It is a huge industry that is evolving to keep up with new tech all of the time. It has often been said that the adoption of new technology often follows this line: invention - discovery by porn producers - advancement and refinement by porn producers - adoption by mainstream. This formula is happening in many different spheres of the sex industry and both Kiiroo and Fleshlight saw an opportunity. So they made the Launch an industry leading responsive toy.

All you need is one app to bring your Launch to life!

Simply by connecting to specially-encoded websites such as uFeel.tv, users can now “feel” the action that is happening to a penis on screen. Slow and sexy fellatio? You bet! Hard, pounding intercourse? Absolutely! And what greatly adds to the appeal is that you can watch your favourite porn stars perform these delicious acts from a POV perspective. Just lay back, turn on the Launch and image you are that lucky guy on the receiving end. 

There have been other products that try to offer something similar to the Launch’s responsive capabilities and superior technology, but no others come close. Whether you’re connected to a website or just playing on your own, the Launch is a powerful toy that offers more possibilities than all of those other products combined.

Making Fleshlight Interactive

Humans are an inquisitive and curious bunch. Our thirst for learning is insatiable. We spend many years of our lives in school, first to learn the basic of reading and writing and arithmetic and then many years after learning more specialized collections of information and trades. And then, as we grow older, folks are still trying to grow and learn with hobbies, travel and physical activities.

 Throughout all of these stages of development, there is one common theme that ties our journey together: development. As we make grades, learn languages, master a new recipe, we are often trying to develop both ourselves and others around us. We are contributing to the collective betterment of humans by becoming well-rounded individuals and by offering something back.

 Providing for others is part of our nature. There is a cycle that has been repeated through time as humans. Discover or identify a need, invent, master, distribute. You can look back at the basics of life including fire, bread, electricity and see how this cycle has greatly helped us as a whole. Sure, this cycle is frequently used for financial benefit and gain, but even when that is the case, we are often still better off.

Better sex helps us all

Of course, this cycle also applies to sex—both in education and sex products. After a long period where sex was demonized, we’re starting to crawl away from that trauma and move toward a better understanding and acceptance of sex, individually and societally. This progression is allowing us to expand our understanding of what people want out of sex, how they find pleasure and what sex toys they want to play with.

This has lead to the development of truly revolutionary products. Really, it seems like a new device comes out every couple months that blows our socks off (amongst other things!). This boom in sex tech is a direct result of loosening our restrictions, both mentally and societally, around sex, thus letting our imaginations run wild. Here is where we see the cycle of development fully in effect—and the results have been stellar.

From materials to motors and more, sex tech has improved by leaps and bounds. But there has long been, for one specific demographic, one sex toy that has never been mastered.

The Holy Grail of sex toys?

There are many devices out there that can move a dildo or vibrator in and out of a vagina to simulate intercourse. They’ve even been enshrined in mainstream media, as in the film Burn After Reading. More often than not, fucking machines are associated with porn and the male gaze of women’s sexuality, but there might be some women who do like them.

Unfortunately, there has never been a widely-marketed device that simulates intercourse on a penis, with no effort required by the user other than hold tight and enjoy.

Until now.

The release of the Fleshlight Launch has been heralded as one of the most significant sex product advances in years. A joint effort between Fleshlight and Kiiroo, the Launch offers so many features and additional benefits that it sets itself apart from any other device on the market today—and possibly for years to come.

The Launch is actually two components: a Fleshlight and the Launch module. You can use any Fleshlight sleeve you want, as long it fits in a regular case. So, you can simulate a vagina, an anus, a mouth, a pornstar or even a zombie, whatever gets you excited. The Launch module is a sleek and stylized, circular device that you secure your Fleshlight into. Once it is clicked into place, the true magic of the toy can begin.

Get ready for blast-off!

The Launch two main functionalities: interactive and manual. Let’s start with the later to outline the basics of what this two offer.

Unlike many other penis pleasure machines, the Launch offers two main actions. Many other pumping devices just offer one: changing the speed at which it strokes the penis. Indeed, this is a key feature, but the Launch takes things one amazing step forward. While also offering user control of the device speed, the Launch also enables the player to change the depth at which the Fleshlight strokes. Do you like short, quick strokes concentrating on the head of the penis? Or are you more into slow, deep strokes taking your whole cock in?

This innovation is enough to set the Launch far and above all other mechanized strokers on the market—but these aren’t even its best features.

Shoot with the stars

Porn has become entwined with our masturbatory lives. It is a huge industry that is evolving to keep up with new tech all of the time. It has often been said that the adoption of new technology often follows this line: invention - discovery by porn producers - advancement and refinement by porn producers - adoption by mainstream. This formula is happening in many different spheres of the sex industry and both Kiiroo and Fleshlight saw an opportunity. So they made the Launch an industry leading responsive toy.

All you need is one app to bring your Launch to life!

Simply by connecting to specially-encoded websites such as uFeel.tv, users can now “feel” the action that is happening to a penis on screen. Slow and sexy fellatio? You bet! Hard, pounding intercourse? Absolutely! And what greatly adds to the appeal is that you can watch your favourite porn stars perform these delicious acts from a POV perspective. Just lay back, turn on the Launch and image you are that lucky guy on the receiving end. 

There have been other products that try to offer something similar to the Launch’s responsive capabilities and superior technology, but no others come close. Whether you’re connected to a website or just playing on your own, the Launch is a powerful toy that offers more possibilities than all of those other products combined.

Incorporating a Fleshlight into Partnered sex

One of the hallmarks of a great sexual relationship is owning desires and being honest with your partner. Being able to talk about anything concerning your sexual desires and interests—be it positive or negative—is a true marker of a positive connection. Not only are you likely to be fulfilled, but your partner is more likely to be satisfied as well.

These open discussions, however, must be a two-way street. It is always great when you get to share your concerns and fantasies, but you have to be able to hear your partner’s as well. Being an active listener when your lover also has something to share is just as important in a strong relationship dynamic.

Communicating sexual needs
For some, one of the bigger challenges to a sexual relationship is when one partner wants to introduce something new into the sexual dynamic. Something different, something unexpected. It is easy to see our sexual interests as a contained unit. It takes an active motion to open our sex boxes to put a new toy in there. And toys have, traditionally, been one of the new suggestions that have raised eyebrows and caused questions and concern.

For a long time, and still to this day, there is a stigma around using sex toys, whether that be for solo pleasure or in partnered sex. This can be attributed to general sex negative attitudes as well sex products being difficult to purchase. It used to be that you could only find them in seedy shops on the wrong side of the tracks. It didn’t help that sex toys from decades past weren’t always to most aesthetically pleasing devices around.

From all of this grew an opinion that using sex toys somehow many you sexually deficient and possibly even deviant. What a low blow for people just seeking out pleasure!

Breaking sex toy stigma

Fortunately, the stigma around sex toys has been greatly reduced with the spread of sex positive sex shops and online outlets, massively improved quality of products and design and a better understanding of the positive aspects toys can bring to a person’s sexual fulfillment—whether that be with others or just yourself.

However, that doesn’t mean there still isn’t some residual societal anxiety around sex toys, particularly when it comes to partnered sex. One of the first challenging sexual conversations that is likely to occur when folks start exploring sexual boundaries is whether it is cool to bring toys into their sexy shenanigans.

Better sexual education needed
For the most part, this conversation has generally involved bringing a vibrator into sexual play. In heterosexual relationships, men had fears that vibrators would replace them or that women would become numb to other types of stimulation.

“There is a general lack of sexuality education,” notes Dr. Tara Martha Lee, a clinical sexologist out of Singapore. “Their partner might assume that there is a preference for the sexual aid as opposed to sex with them, and feel threatened. With some sexuality education and reassurance, I hope couples can see Fleshlight as a sexual aids—just like a lubricant, dildo or vibrator.”

Fortunately, this has been proven quite false. Women still enjoy intercourse, but with the addition of some buzz play, they are more likely to reach orgasm. It is a win-win situation. While still a challenge for some, vibrator use has become much more commonplace in relationships and far less a concern than it was even ten years.

Reinventing sex products for men

But something else has come up in the past decade this is still a potentially difficult conversation. Sex products for men has been coming into their own. It is funny that a market dominated by male spending featured, predominantly female-focussed products. However, in recent years, manufacturers have been taking note of all of the man-money out there and are now producing high-quality products for penis pleasure.

And the big daddy of male sex toys is the best-selling Fleshlight. For more than a decade, the company’s range of strokers and related products has dominated the male sex product market. Millions have been sold to countless satisfied customers. In that time, Fleshlight’s product line has continued to grow and evolve to meet the varied desires of their client base. Theirs is a true sex product success story, so much so that the term “fleshlight” has almost become ubiquitous when describing male masturbators and strokers..

But there is a significant different between masturbators and vibrators. While both are highly recommended for solo play, vibrators have been widely encouraged for coupled sex as well. Not so much Fleshlights. They are generally considered a “me time” product. But could they be more?

Fleshlights for couples?

As with any sex product, there are definitely ways to bring a Fleshlight into partnered sex...but it might not be an easy sell. For all of the positive attention sex toys are now given, some folks are still a little uncomfortable with the “life-like” features of some Fleshlight products. At the same time, some folks just can’t see how a toy that has such a specific purpose and action, could be introduced to a sexy scene.

Dr. Lee is not entirely sure either partner is really looking for this option.“There seems to be a misconception that when it comes to partnered sex, your partner should be the one satisfying you and anything else used is because there is a problem. This brings up negative feelings and emotions—which can make it different to try different things in the bedroom.”

Maybe playing together is the thing to break down negative feelings and emotions. And the first step in bringing a Fleshlight into sex with a partner is a good, loving conversation. There needs to be plenty of reassurance, kind and considerate listening and suggestions on how this sex toy can be a fun thing for both of you. If all goes well and everybody feels confident and happy, try some of these sexy shenanigans

Side-by-side: Many people love watching their partner masturbate. And frankly, the hassles of everyday life can make us too tired for great sexcapades. You and your partner can each grab your favourite toys and enjoy some not-quite solo action. Bonus points if you can get your lips together for passionate kisses.

Side-by-side and reach: If you love the idea of side-by-side by can’t keep your hands off each other, each of you can be in control of the toys!

Oral attention: Giving your partner oral can be a tremendous thrill for you both—and you can enjoy a Fleshlight at the same time. Whether you or your lover holds the toy is a matter of preference. You can bury your face in their sex with at the same time being stroked.

Lending a hand: Sometimes it is just nice to be pampered and you should always appreciate your partner taking care of you. To switch things up, instead of a handjob or blowjob while you lounge in luxury, have them take control of your Fleshlight to pleasure your penis. You’ll be very used to how you use it on yourself, so when they wield the toy, it will feel very different and exciting.

Fleshlight Different textures

There are many different ways to try and parse people’s personalities. You’ve got the Myers-Briggs Test, astrology and countless internet memes. Are any of these more valid than others? Well, that’s debatable. Some folks think any kind of personality analysis is bunk and shouldn’t be trusted. Others will swear by these measurement methods and invoke their personal results whenever it seems appropriate (and other moments as well).

Of course there are many more different ways to judge personality traits but we’re going to introduce a new one today. And it just might become the next the next viral sensation.

What your favourite Fleshlight texture says about you!

Destroya

There’s no way around it, you seek the truth. If your favourite Fleshlight sleeve is the Destroya, you devote a significant amount of time, both in real life and in your fantasy life, to discovering the essence of pleasure. Modelled after the marvelous Stoya, this sleeve is as deeply intense and unfailing. It provides an intimate connection while still maintaining an air of mystery. You seek this and want to learn the whole truth.

Mini-swallow

You are a no-nonsense type who just wants to get to the heart of every situation. As part of the “Sex-in-a-can” line, the Mini-swallow is easily accommodating and so are you. You’re there to help anyone in need with your typical no-fuss demeanour. Sometimes you just need to reach over and grab yourself a “can” of Mini-swallow pleasure and you want it right then and there. And you’re just that way with those around you. Get ‘er done.

Pilot (Mini-Destroya)

You may seem to be the life of the party at first: open, talkative, receptive, but people need to really push to get to know the real you. There is something much more intense and provocative beneath your surface, but only people who make a distinct effort can really find core. Just as with the Pilot sleeve. Being clear, it provides a probbing look, and when entering you feel an openness. But push a little harder and deeper and you’ll find a very tight penetration. People want to get there with you...do you let them?

Blade

Some might consider you a bit dramatic—at least on first meeting. But when they get to know you, they realize that you are just persistent and dedicated. And these traits are the secret of your success. The Blade is heavily ribbed providing continued stimulation along the entire shaft. It pulls the user into every inch of it. And this is what you do. Everyone around you is sucked into your world—whether they want it or not. Fortunately, a little drama can often add to the spice of life.

Primal

When people describe relationships with you, the words “surprising,” “unexpected,” and almost too much to handle” most often come up. There aren’t bad traits, but you’re definitely a unique soul you takes unusual routes to providing pleasure to those around you. More often than not, your greatest moments come after having to push through some strong tension. The Primal sleeve features very tight spots followed by very intense sensation and pleasure through different bumps. As with you, just move past that restriction and you’ll be riding great waves of pleasure.

Frankenstein

Really, you just want to be loved. And when people take the time to get to know you, they’ll look past your scars (literal and figurative) to some something deep in your core. You care and you want to please people. You’ll do your best when you have to put on appearances, but people don’t always want to see what you have to offer. And, just as with the Frankenstein texture, you are ready to hold tight and caress, while at the same time being able to show anyone and everyone the time of their life. 

Gauntlet

Every day you wake up thinking the world is your oyster, or rather, a plate full of oysters for you and whomever you plan to have a date with that night. There is no challenge too big, no hurdle too tall for all of the fun you have in mind. Which is why you open your eyes and plan to run the Gauntlet. By combining your naturally inquisitive nature with no holds barred sexual abandon, the pleasure you seek is always close at hand.

Crystal

You are a scientist! Your mind is filled with a need to experiment that drives you to constantly try new things. Friends may tell you about something amazing, but you’re not about to take their word for it. You need to see things, not just feel them. You need the empirical evidence that comes with seeing the results of your labour. The Crystal texture is perfect for you. While lovers have always found your need to watch a little quirky, being able to fulfill your desire to see results makes you happy.

Alien

Some might refer to you as being “a little bit out there.” Others take it further by calling you a total space cadet! You are always off in your own world, wondering, dreaming. Is there somewhere out there that I need to get to? Is there more that I need to see? As such, your tastes run a little bit on the odd side. Just like the Alien texture you love bright colours and fantasy. You hold a firm belief that there is much more to this world than what we see. And if anyone is going to find anything out there...it probably will be you.

Swallow

Some probably say you’ve got a big mouth, but they don’t know what they’re talking about. Yes, you do love opening your mouth, But you do carry yourself with the utmost of discretion at all time. And you’re smart. Everything you say, every way you move your mouth is a calculated move. The words that come out of you are intended to rile people up. Mentally, politically...sexually.Your mouth is going to take you far!                                                                                                                                                                                   

Fleshlight Accessories

Let’s be real here: the Fleshlight is one of the best standalone sex products ever. Ever since it came on the scene in 1997 the device has maintained a stranglehold on the way men take care of their own business. Masturbation had never felt so much like a real-life sexual encounter with another person.

And here’s the thing, because Fleshlight products are such high quality and last such a long time when taken care of, just ensuring you have enough lube might be all you ever require for your masturbation needs. But did you know that there are a wide range of products created specifically to complement your favourite Fleshlight. These add-ons will further your sexual adventures by adding comfort, power, and connectivity!

Let’s get a grip on the many different accessories waiting for you and your Fleshlight.

Getting warmed up

Nobody likes to climb into bed with a cold lover. Why should your self love sessions be any different. When you’re all warmed up and ready to go, trying to play with a stone cold toy can be a definite boner killer. For some people, the situation might be quite literal! A Fleshlight feels great, but if you just pull it out of a drawer and slap on some lube, chances are you’re going to be sliding your penis into a refrigerator! Now, if that’s your thing, rock on, but for those who want their Fleshlight to feel as nice and warm as the body parts it mimics, you need to heat things up with a Sleeve Warmer

Sex is better comfortable

How many fellas out there enjoy some online porn or video chat during your stroking fun? Don’t raise your hands, we can see they are occupied. With the emergence of sexy internet content, and interesting biological phenomenon has potentially taken place. I’m not sure how far this affects men, but for those who use one hand dominantly for most activities (beyond the bedroom), accessing porn and masturbating became a challenge. How do you surf with the same hand you usually stroke with? You don’t, but isn’t it easier to learn how to jack off with a different hand than it is use a mouse or touchpad?

Fleshlight to the rescue. Using a Fleshlight is nice and easy with either hand and that leaves you able to access the content you desire with ease. But they’ve taken it one step further. With the popularity of smartphones and tablets, we find ourselves with a challenge. Do you prop your device up on pillow? Balance on your belly? Don’t worry, Fleshlight has you covered with devices for your devices!

On the “why didn’t we think of this?” side, the Phonestrap is a simple way to your smartphone close and hands-free. Simply attach your phone to the holder and then strap it to your thigh! You’ll be free to enjoy your porn or video chat and your Fleshlight all at the same time.

Another more interactive device is the Launchpad. If you enjoy your content on a tablet, this is a must have. With the Launchpad, your Fleshlight becomes part of the device! Great while watching POV content, you can stroke the Fleshlight along with the film. Makes you feel like you’re right there!

Some people really love to masturbate in the shower. It is one of those places we are almost always assured of privacy to do our own thing. Because Fleshlights are already water-safe, it is only natural to bring the toy in for a steamy soak. And Shower Mount takes your dirty cleaning sessions to a whole new level of frothy. Simply attach the Shower Mount to the way and then secure your Fleshlight in it. Then you’re ready to mount!

Maybe you’re looking for something a little more stylish, something a little more upscale to complement your refined tastes in pleasure products. Some might think of a Fleshlight as simply an outlet or means to find relief. Others look at their Fleshlight with great reverence. For these folks, two pieces of sexy, Fleshlight-compatible furniture will appeal both functionally and aesthetically. Working with Liberator, the renowned sex furniture company, you can slip your favourite Fleshlight into On a Mission or Top Dog for a refined but raunchy good time.

Electronically enhancing the action

It would have been easy for the makers of Fleshlight to sit pretty with their accomplishments. It is a revolutionary sex product that has make a significant impact in people’s lives. However, just as the original Fleshlight pushed the bounds of what people could feel, the company doesn’t want that envelope sealed shut. By continuing to develop and partner with other companies, there will be no rest for the wicked. Fleshlight is exploring and refining powered and interactive sex tech, with the Fleshlight continuing to be at the focus of their efforts.

Remember those ads in the back of men’s magazines that guaranteed a bigger penis? Just use their special vacuum device and you’d be sporting a bigger, thicker, monster cock before long. Well, there is a tiny kernel of truth in those claims, but let’s not kid ourselves. People were buy penis enlargers because the suction sensation feels great! And you can get that awesome feeling with a Fleshpump—without the false pretences.

Have you ever dreamed of being right in the action of your favourite porn film? Or, even just be in control of what those sexy performers do? The Vstroker is an ingenious little devices that attaches to the end of your Fleshlight to transmit your motion to specially-encoded clips. Do you really love what you see, but want it faster? As you speed up, so with they! And the reverse as well, if you want to draw your fun out.

Finally, the crown jewel in Fleshlight technology is the true marriage of sensation and interactivity. The Fleshlight Launch is a partnership with another toy maker, Kiiroo, and the result is an exquisite piece of sexual technology. The Launch has two main features: power and interactivity. On its own, the Launch is a breakthrough device. Simply slide your Fleshlight into the device and turn your simple toy into sex machine. The Launch features different stroke length and speed via simple controls, allowing the user to lay back and simply enjoy.

But that is not all. The Launch is the most interactive sex product on the market today. When you connect to specific porn via an app, the Launch will take over—and you will be amazed! This toy will match, stroke for stroke, move for move, what you see on the screen. Deep, shallow, slow, quick, it is truly what-you-see-is-what-you-get. And the inventory of different films available is growing all the time. The Launch is the perfect compliment to the Fleshlight. 

Care for Fleshlight

As with many things in life, if you really love it, you have to take care of it. Think about vintage cars or really stellar vinyl collections. After you’ve taken your classic muscle car out for a spin and don’t plan on having the beast out for another couple weeks, do you just leave it in the driveway? No way, you get out a cloth and you wipe it down. No way are you taking a chance that something degrades a pristine finish!

Same thing with your vinyl collection. While records are making a comeback, you probably have discs in your stash that are priceless to you. The thought of getting a scratch on some of the holy black is enough to make your heart pound. So, when you’ve done listening do you just slide that vinyl across the table? No way! Into the sleeve and cover it goes, ready to rock n roll another time.

So why do people think this way about sex toys?

Even when you’re worn out

Of course, it is very tempting to just drop your favourite sex product in a drawer when you’re done. You’re tired, sweaty and, if all went well, your legs are feeling a little too wobbly to walk. Really, you probably just want to roll over and go to sleep. But you really shouldn’t. You really should get up and clean your toy and here are a couple really good example: bacteria and cost.

Let’s take the world-famous Fleshlight for example.

Fleshlight boasts entirely unique construction and materials that have made it one of the best selling sexual devices of all time. Millions have been sold and that is for a really good reason: they feel fantastic. But your Fleshlight won’t be very appealing if you don’t follow the company’s directions on how to take care of your toy.

Different than other sex product

Fleshlights are unlike most other sex products in that the penis goes inside the toy. For the most part, dildos and vibrators and other toys are insertables. Because they go inside a person, their outside surface is what needs to be cleaned. And that can be easily accomplished with a wash or even by being run through the dishwasher. Fleshlights, on the other hand, have penises inserted inside them, with lube and, eventually, bodily fluids. So you really have to get to the inside of the Fleshlight sleeve.

Now, what makes the Fleshlight so popular is the patented SuperSkin material the company uses for their sleeves. It feels as close to skin as anything else on the market. But it is a sensitive material that needs specific care. And it does need to be washed directly after every use.

SuperSkin is ideal as a sex product material. It is both phthalate and latex-free making it extremely body-safe. However, SuperSkin is very porous. This makes perfect sense given how soft and flexible the sleeves are. Leaving lubes and fluids inside a Fleshlight sleeve for too long can allow bacteria to grow in tiny crevices over time. If you’re really negligent in how you care for your Fleshlight, it is possible for mold to grow inside. And that has got to be one of the least sexy thoughts ever. At that point, if it happens, here’s hoping you toss that thing right in the garbage.

Damage = garbage

Now that would be a real shame. Sex toys are intimate products that people do become really attached to. Anytime pleasure is involved, found feelings are sure to develop. It can truly hurt to dispose of an item that provides so much fun and special feelings.

But there is another way tossing your Fleshlight is sure to hurt you—right in the wallet. Fleshlight sleeves are not inexpensive. They aren’t going to break the bank, but improper care is surely going to add up in replacement costs. Plus, if you have to toss your sleeve and then don’t order a replacement right away, you might find yourself disappointed by not having your Fleshlight available in a moment of need. That would truly hurt!

So, hopefully this has scared you into loving and caring for your Fleshlight as if your (sex) life depends on it. Here’s how to best clean and store your Fleshlight for optimal, long-lasting use.

Steps to caring for your Fleshlight

  1. After you finish another fantastic time with your Fleshlight and have your legs back enough to make a trip to the bathroom, grab your cleaning items and head to the sink.
  2. Remove the sleeve from your Fleshlight case and rinse it thoroughly under warm water. Be sure to get the water into all of the small crevices to ensure maximum cleansing. More textured sleeves will need greater attention. The pliable SuperSkin can be turned almost inside out to really get in there! Note: do not use soap on your Fleshlight sleeve. It will degrade the SuperSkin. 
  3. Don’t forget to rinse, clean and dry the case. It won’t be taking the brunt of the liquids, but it could get a fair bit of lube on it.
  4. After the rinse, spray your sleeve with Fleshwash, a spray that is specifically formulated to clean and care for your Fleshlight sleeve. Spray both the inside and outside of the sleeve. Allow the sleeve to air dry and when it is done, your Fleshlight will be ready to go again!
  5. If you’re not quite ready to go again and decide to put your Fleshlight away, be sure to coat it with Fleshlight Renewing Powder. Over time the Superskin material will naturally lose some of its softness and pliability. But, regular use of the Fleshlight Renewing Powder will keep your Fleshlight soft and sexy. 

Your Fleshlight can be easily stored in its case, with the lid on. It is best to keep the cap a little loose and the cap at the bottom of the base open. It helps if air can flow into your Fleshlight. If you want some a little more discreet and hygienic, pick yourself up a Joyboxxx. This exquisite case for your sex toys has specific hooks to hold a Fleshlight. It also features an antimicrobial agent that inhibits the growth of harmful germs. It is also made entirely of body-safe materials.

Fleshlight in the Media

We have a problem talking about sex. Individually and collectively as a society. In past generations and cultures, sex was not a taboo subject. It was not shameful or forbidden. Rather, sex was glorified and honoured. Sex used to be a topic on everyone’s lips. But that’s not where we are now.

Now, here’s the funny thing: our society generally doesn’t talk about sex, but we certainly talk around sex a lot. Rather than overtly discuss pleasure, positions and perverts, we allude to sex and make sexuality a central part of our media landscape. From film to literature to advertising to television to the news, sex is often present, even if the influence is subtle.

Restricted views on sex
How we got this way is no big secret. Specific religions and specific governments from recent centuries have done a number on society’s relationship with sex. No longer is it glorified and loved. For some it is practically repulsive (at least on the surface). We’re taught that a monogamous, for-procreation version of sex is the virtuous way to live.

There are arguments that these restrictions were needed to prevent cultures from slipping into mass hedonism and potential sexual anarchy. This is debateable. However, what has been prevented is the natural and fluid growth of subsequent generations—some of whom would have never known or understand the pleasure and intimacy of sex for fun or sex for love.

But it wasn’t just sexual relationships with other that have suffered. Our own sexual selves have been under attack for just as long. For some reason, masturbation has been deemed a significant threat and has long had a stigma of shame attached to it. Were our forefathers so afraid that there wouldn’t be enough kids that they wanted men to stop wasting their seed? Given the current global population, they sure miscalculated that one!

The fear of masturbation
Male masturbation is particularly problematic for some (female masturbation hasn’t ever really been considered a threat to society because women’s sexuality has generally been ignored over time). There’s the aforementioned concern with diminishing populations due to over-handling of one’s own junk. Masturbation has also been linked to resulting in physical ailments such as hairy palms. Self-love has even been considered a psychiatric illness (look up how the cereal Special K was invented). And if you do it, you’ll be headed to Hell for sure.

Masturbation needs a makeover. In recent years, a more civilized and compassionate dialogue around sex has started and masturbation is being rehabilitated. There are many advocated who are recognizing that self-love is a great tool for pleasure (obviously!) but other concerns. Masturbation has great stress relief properties. Masturbation is a great way to show your partner the techniques you most enjoy. For men, masturbation can contribute to better prostate health.

So, how can we move masturbation from a hidden pleasure to a mainstream conversation? What do people need to know to shift self-love representation from snickers, giggles and finger-wagging to a more enlightened view?

Moving masturbation forward
One of the methods already underway is the normalization of sex toys in mainstream media. Sure, sex toys are great for coupled play, but for many their sex products are beloved friends for fantastic alone time. Letting more and more people in on this secret (not at all a secret!) will draw stories and positive recommendations out. It’ll bring more people into the sex toys world.

The thing is, this normalization has not ome as quickly for men’s products as they have for women’s. Even though talk of vibrators is still not commonplace in movies, television and popular literature, show like Sex in the City took bold steps forward and, basically, started a revolution. Are you familiar with Rabbit vibrators? Standard wand vibes with an additional clitoral stimulator for dual pleasure? Well, that type of vibrator—that comes in many different designs, is ubiquitously called “Rabbit” in large part because that version appeared on Sex in the City.

Making male masturbation mainstream
Could the same thing happen with a male pleasure products? It has already started! The most well-known name in penis pleasure, Fleshlight, is starting to pop up in the mainstream, giving the company new boosts of revenue and people more acceptance of sleeve masturbators.

One of the best examples of Fleshlight in mainstream media is a pointed reference in the Kevin Smith film Zack and Miri Make a Porno. Okay, it doesn’t sounds super mainstream, but Smith is one of the most popular writer/directors of his generation. And his inclusion of the scene in which Zack justifies the purchase of a Fleshlight to Miri, his roommate (whose vibrator has just died) is classic. When Miri turns her nose up at the possibility of him making this masturbatory purchase, he rightfully questions why he can’t have a sex product that works for him the way her vibrator works for her.

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Kinda crass, but you get the point. This is the uphill battle that is being fought when it comes to a better understanding and acceptance of male masturbation. All of those years of threats of hairy palms, blindness and social shunning have given men that idea that their self-pleasure is something to be denied and be ashamed of. We can recognize that men have much privilege when it comes to pleasure elsewhere, but personal touch and masturbation are inherent rights of our bodies.

If we can get to a place where men are more comfortable with discussing their bodies and what they do with them, maybe then we’ll reach a point where some of those other privileges start to fade away. And if acknowledging products like Fleshlight, both in personal conversations and in mainstream media help, here’s hoping we see Fleshlights popping up on nightstands in bedroom scenes, in sex toy shopping scenes and possibly even in scenes depicting pleasure—solo, coupled and more.

The Diffrent Faces of Fleshlight

A wise person once said “Variety is the spice of life.” Who knew this would someday refer to sex toys!

There are many different ways people can shake things up in their sex lives. New positions, new playthings, new people! Now, some of these options are more likely and possible than others. New positions are generally useful to people in relationships. It is hard to explore the full potential of  the Kama Sutra on your  own. And bringing in new people? Obviously, being single or unattached makes meeting new folks for sexxy shenanigans much more likely. Couples can get in on this action too, but non-monogamy and swinging are a wider topic for another time.

That leaves playthings—sex toys are where we can really go from mild to wild and everywhere inbetween.

Mainstream acceptance of sex toys

Sex toys have had an uphill battle to become accepted into mainstream society. There is still a ways to go, but the general acceptance of sex products has increased significantly over the past 20 years. And with this newly gained comfort has come a increase in the quality of sex toys as well as a multitude of new and thrilling designs to leave us thrilled and satisfied.

For the most part, the sex industry has focussed their innovation and creativity on sex products to stimulate the vulva and clitoris. It could be argued it has taken this long to make good toys because the wrong people (men) were in charge!

Regardless, sex toys for women are truly hitting their stride and improving all the time. And an offshoot of this growth and innovation is that manufacturers are looking elsewhere, hoping to find the next big item.

Enter Fleshlight and their continuous  attempts to push the envelope of penis pleasure.

Always something new

One of the strongest aspects of the Fleshlight business model is the company’s willingness to take chances with their iconic brand. It would be easy to rest their laurels on their iconic shape, look and texture and stiil move significant units to horny  men year after year. But they know that their customer-base will always want more—particularly when it comes to appearance. Because, well, variety is the spice of life.

We are an appearance culture and men are often described as being very visually-focussed when it comes to sex. Fleshlight has recognized and embraced this theory as a core tenet of their sex toys design aesthetic. People sometimes want to masturbate with a very  specific-looking toy and Fleshlight does their best to offer a wide variety of choices.

Now, some of their design offerings make perfect sense considering what we understand of sexual desire. Knowing there are Fleshlighht sleeves in the shape of vulvas, anuses and mouths fits the idea of what men want in strokers. Making them available in different fleshtones also ensures you’re covering a wider demographic.

But those models are just the tip of the iceberg. Dig deep and you can find Fleshlights modelled after the bits of your favourite porn stars, clear  Fleshlights for voyeuristic pleasure, and stealth Fleshlights that are hidden in beer can shapes. Many of these styles are also not styled after human anatomy. There are definitely people who do not want to pleasure themselves with a replica.

And then there is the Freak series. Not for the faint of heart, Fleshlight offers a line of strokers with such creative names as Zombie Mouth, Alien, Reaper, Frankenstein and more. And they look exactly as you imagine. Fantasy is an integral part of sex for some people and Fleshlight’s embrace of these fun and frightening imagery demonstrates their knowledge of their customer base. We’re talking super spicy with these toys!

What men want their Fleshlight to look like

We reached out to find some Fleshlight users to ask what models they choose. Because there is still some stigma around male masturbation and negative portrayals of Fleshlights, everyone who participated was offered anonymity for their thoughts. Here are some quotes about why men choose

“I only ever go for anatomically correct. I just can’t imagine it being fun with a can or a alien or something.”

“When I first saw the Freaks line, I laughed and couldn’t believe anyone would want one. But then I looked a few more times and found myself wickedly turned on. I love horror so they are totally my thing.”

“I ordered the cheapest one and it feels great. I don’t really care what it looks like, it isn’t a person.”

“The only reason I don’t have a Fleshlight now is that I think it would freak my girlfriend out. I don’t think she’d like any of the types, and we live together.”

“As a Black man, I hope they bring in more diverse options.”

“My girl isn’t into ass stuff so I have an ass one. She’s cool with it. She literally can’t do anal so she gets that I want that fun.”

In our small sampling, we learned a lot about just how important the look of a Fleshlight is to its user. For the most part it is very important! But it must be noted that for others, including one respondent mentioned above, it really doesn’t matter at all. Ultimately, using a Fleshlight is predominantly about the pleasure it provides as a penis stroking device. The rest just might be gravy.

So what are you thinking for tonight? How spicy do you want to get? 

The First Time I Tried a Fleshlight

Forgive me if this sounds like it was written by an adolescent boy who just discovered what what Kleenex is really meant for. Rather, I’m a guy in his mid-forties who has enjoyed a fulfilling sex life for years. But I might fawn, just a bit, hear and there.

Because I’m going to tell you about the first time I tried a Fleshlight.

I’ve worked, on an outlier basis, in the sex industry for years. I am primarily a sex writer and editor, but I also hosted a sex radio show, have contributed to books, hosted workshops, dabbled in a bit of porn production and performing. It ain’t my full-time gig, but I have fun with it.

At some point along the way, probably helped by the presence of my blog, I was offered the opportunity to review sex products. It isn’t a regular thing that I make a lot of time for and I rarely seek out products to write on, but when someone sends me something, I try the toy out and do a write up. Sometimes it is just for my site, sometimes I get paid by others. And, well, it might go without saying but I do get to keep the toy.

Reviewing ain’t easy

Now, this may sound a little glamorous and sure, it can be fun. But I’ve also reviewed movies, books and an assortment of other media and objects and I can tell you sex products are the hardest. Because it is sex! There are many factors beyond the quality of the toy that go into making a sex toy work for you. Everything from mood, getting a partner involved, the materials of the toy and possibly even room temperature can play a role in whether this product will work for you.

And then there’s the toy itself. I’ve tried out sex toys that range from “This thing is my new best friend—NEVER LEAVE ME!” to “If I don’t throw this thing out the window it will become alive in my sleep and murder me like it did my junk!”

So, I didn’t know what to think when it was requested I review a product that included reviewing a Fleshlight.

I’m a sex positive guy. I like everything about sex. I like that people have sex how they want and I feel that everyone should be sexually empowered. There a phrase that has gained traction: “Don’t yuck my yum.” I’m not interested in every sexual act under the sun, but I respect people’s choices.

But I wasn’t sure about a Fleshlight.

If looks could kill a mood

I’m a very visually-inclined person and the Fleshlight didn’t really do much for me in that department. Actually it turned me off. The idea of playing with a fake-looking vulva did not turn me on. I wondered about the feminist implications of playing with a disembodied human part. But, when the toy actually arrived, I knew there wasn’t much more I could do. A Fleshlight was on my doorstep and I had to check it out.

I have to admit, the toy itself looked better than the pictures. While it didn’t actively turn me on, it also didn’t turn me off. I went about constructing the toy, putting the sleeve in the case, reading the instructions. I lined up the supplied lube and took at a peak at some other things that I knew would get my motor running. To get a sense of what to expect, I put some lube on my finger and slide it in. Wow!

At this point, there was no holding back—and I didn’t want to. As much as it felt odd to be sliding into a replica, there I was, as far as I could go.

And it felt good. No...it felt great!

The sleeve is the key

Obviously the main feature of the Fleshlight is the sleeve, particularly the material it is made from. The SuperSkin as it is dubbed feels unlike anything else on this planet. It is as promised, very close to feeling like actual flesh. And with the right amount of lube, slipping in and pumping this vulva flashlight became second nature.

But here’s the thing: There’s another part of the Fleshlight that, I don’t think, gets enough praise for what it can provide in pleasure. At the bottom of the case is a simple screw-on cap. I actually its main purpose was ease of cleaning post sexytimes. No no no! It is an essential component of your potential pleasure.

The cap is actually a valve. The more air it lets in, the less intense the pressure in the sleeve. Tight that baby up and, oh boy, you start to wonder you mistook your Fleshlight for a vacuum!

Learning as I went

I have to admit, because of not fully understanding the valve, my first session with my Fleshlight ended rather abruptly—in the best possible way. I’d put the valve fully closed and the suction was intense! When I realized what the valve could do, I started to experiment. I’d already been pumping away for a while, so the stage was pretty much set. But I didn’t know that closing that seal entirely would, pretty much, suck the orgasm right out of me.

After taking a breather and collecting myself, I sat back and took stock of the moment. This product, one I had been so reticent about, had just amazed me. Very few sex devices have ever ranked so high on the pleasure scale. The Fleshlight lay on the bed beside looking a little tired out itself.

I knew one thing for certain: this was going to be the easiest review I’d ever write.

The Futue of Fleshlight

The world of sex has changed so much in such a short amount of time And this is great! We’re finally crawling away from centuries of oppression and inequality to recapture some of our past sexual glory. Let’s continue to let loose the shackles of prude governmental and religious control. Let’s continue to recast society into one that sees all people as capable and willing to explore sex and sexuality. Let’s continue to create the future now.

One of the most significant advances in our changed sexual climate has been the development of quality sex products. There have always been sex toys of sorts. Dildos, vibrators and sleeves has a long history. But they’ve always been fairly rudimentary.

Sex and tech came together

Technological advances in the late 20th century changed all that. Small, strong motors were developed. Soft, pliable silicone hit the scene for both comfort and health. Molds and other production techniques became faster and cheaper. The revolution of sex toys began in earnest and continues unabated to this day. We can now purchase almost any kind of sexual play thing we want...but just know that the next one is just around the corner.

Leading the change into the future of sex products was the development of the Fleshlight. This revolutionary device forever changed the way sex toys are developed, produced and marketed. An unmitigated success, the Fleshlight combines both a simple concept and forward-thinking. The simple concept? Stroking is a great way for men to feel pleasure. The forward-thinking? There has to be a way to make this even better.

That said, as much as Fleshlight will always be able to rest on its laurels and not change a thing to be successful, maybe they could try diversifying to reach new audiences. Are there untapped markets for Fleshlight to penetrate? Are there consumers who might also enjoy the touch of Superskin?

Here are some ideas that could move Fleshlight into the future:

Mainstream celebrity sleeves

This idea is potentially controversial. There is no doubt that Fleshlight has been very successful with their line of porn star models. What a better fantasy than having your toy match the women on your screen. The opportunity to “have sex” with a favourite porn performer is a huge turn on for many men.

Would it be possible to replicate this success with mainstream actresses?

Obviously, the first hurdle would be to find someone to agree to model her vulva. In a public relations and image conscious industry, aligning so strongly with the sex industry is still frowned upon. Do we somehow think these folks aren’t having sex? Of course not. But the sex industry’s past carries residual shame that is still pervasive.

Will it be possible to break that? Is there any way to marry the sex industry to mainstream celebrity? It is possible, if a few—even just one—personalities take the plunge and try it out. There will be backlash, yes, but it could be a very liberating and a watershed moment. And, guaranteed, it would sell like gangbusters!

Greater accessibility

There’s no doubt that the Fleshlight case and sleeve are a genius combination of design. Sleeves are interchangeable and the case is easy to clean and maintain. Users can enjoy the Fleshlight in many different positions with ease.

But there is one limitation: the size. Fleshlights definitely aren’t small and discrete. They have a bit of heft and girth. As such, using a Fleshlight can be changing for people with disabilities. The thickness of the handle can be a challenge to grip, let along slide up and down for stroking action.

A suggestion for future Fleshlight cases is to make one that features handles on the side. These would not only help with the accessible action, but also provide users a different grip option.

Couple’s toys

Fleshlights are great for couples to play with, but the pleasure is fairly one-sided. Sure, it is hot to get turned on pleasing your partner, but what if there were ways for both people to experience the fun a Fleshlight has to offer? There are many different options to make this possible, depending on the type of couple we’re talking about.

If we’re talking about a penis & vagina pairing, Fleshlight would need to move into some uncharted territory. It is actually pretty surprising that their revolutionary Superskin material has never been used for a female pleasure product. Just imagine how great a dildo of vibrator coated in the soft and pliable Fleshlight material would feel? This new kind of Fleshlight toy could turn the tables as he uses it on her (or her on her).

But let’s take this a little further. One of the most underestimated sex products out there is the double-ended dildo. All too often it is considered a joke. However, let’s reimagine it. Think of one side as that dildo or vibrator coated in Superskin. That would feel great wherever it is being inserted. However, instead of the same on the other end, that could be an actual Fleshlight! The two could hold the toy in the middle and stimulate each other or he could pump into his Fleshlight and then push that into his partner. Quite a mental image!

Another option would play to another market for Fleshlights: gay men. Sure, boys are already buying these toys, but how awesome would it be if they could play with one together? Instead of a double-ended dildo, how about a double-ended Fleshlight? Two ends, equally insertable! Lovers could kneel, facing each other and work this toy between them. Hot!

These humble ideas, submitted for consideration with great reverance, are just one person’s view of the future potential of Fleshlight. Surely, there are many other amazing ideas out there.

The spotlight is on and the future looks bright!

How Can Fleshlight Improve Your Sex Life

Sex is a complicated thing. There are so many ins and outs (ha!) to learn, so many options, so many techniques. People place a lot of significance on whether or not “we can do the sex right.” For some it can even be a deal breaker in a relationship.

That is a lot of pressure!

Our society values sex. We may shun and shame it at every opportunity, but we still look to sex to be the equalizing factor even when folks are separated in many other ways. When it comes down to it, sex is, for most of us, an intrinsic part of our nature and something that, on a base level, should come entirely naturally.

Never stop learning about sex

But let’s be real. That isn’t true. As we continue to emerge from more repressive times in terms of expressing and understanding sexuality, we learn more and more that being a good lover requires more than being present and getting off. There is a sophistication to sex that is still blossoming. We are still learning.

Part of learning about sex is coming to understand that sex has challenges, that sex is not instinctual or second-nature after all. Sex

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